– You are able to verbalise your needs and feelings, and are willing to start a conversation about issues in a relationship.
– To quote my favourite advice columnist Captain Awkward, “Introverts are welcome, but the strong silent type does nothing for me.” This goes for online communication too – I’m looking for someone who’s also interested in an ongoing daily conversation where we can build a repository of in-jokes, shared references, issues we feel passionately about, funny/cute things, etc. If this sounds stressful rather than exciting, we’re probably not a good fit.
I’m not entirely sure I’ll hear back from him, but it was a really amicable resolution to that episode, and I’m glad I gave it enough time to see how compatible we were
In the four messages I’ve sent in my first month on Okcupid, I’ve engaged with their politics, interests and humour, but whether/how these guys responded to the rest of my profile (and photos!) tells me a lot about whether we’d be a good fit for each other. Læs videre “I’m pretty upfront when I feel there’s some issue in a relationship, and I need someone who shares this approach”